Relationships come and go these days, It’s just like replacing old gadgets when you’re not satisfied. That sucks big time. A lot of couples, married or not end up separated or with severe compatibility issues or they end up whacking each other and blowing their brains out dead. I may not have a doctorate in relationships counseling but hell, I do have basic ideas on how to keep it going or make it more stable. We need L.U.S.T., yes you read it LUST…  :D

[ L ] for LOVE
This is the very foundation of a relationship. The two individuals concerned must love and like each other otherwise there’s no point in continuing your shitty companionship. Unless you’re imbeciles trying to prove nothing or just having a stand off on whose gonna last long bearing each other’s repulsive attitudes. How do you know if there’s even a bit of love existing between the two of you? Hmmm… If you feel happy when you’re with him/her then that’s a good starting point… and if you miss the person when you haven’t seem him/her for even a short period of time.. that’s another extra point… but for me this is only a piece of the puzzle… It must be accompanied with the other 3 components.

[ U ] for UNDERSTANDING
This condition has been misinterpreted by dumb asses who think of it as controlling your emotions and letting it be… arrrghhh… Understanding each other is more of a  mutual notion that even with the slightest movement of your partner you’ll be able to feel or know what he or she wants… Its not about being highly compatible but rather being complimentary to each other’s needs… Being able to talk endlessly about everything under the sun and beyond and not tire out because you understand the topic and you ‘re both eager to learn from each other’s point of view… It’s like when a girl ask about how she looks, a man can give compliments or honest opinion when needed… or a man would talk about tech devices and the girl can give out options on a more suitable brand or price…

[S] for SEX
Every relationship dies without this… Oh come on… some people are just hypocrites saying they can live without this… Lemme guess they were nuns and priests in their past lives… Anyway sex is not just the act itself… Its about touching and being affectionate with your partner, a kiss here, a hug there, holding hands well these are essentials to keeping the fire… So long distance affairs for me don’t work… These include chat mates from across the universe, a partner who works abroad and comes back annually, phone pals ( do they still exist ? hehe ) and  other virtually oriented intimate companionship… go ahead have sex with the monitor or kiss those letters and embrace those envelopes… Flesh matters, warmth matters… Being intimate is about exploring the power of touch and expressing your feelings to want and be wanted. Making love builds a bond between couples. Sex keeps the passion alive and the fire burning… We all want to be touched by our love ones.

[T] for TRUST
There is no right or wrong in the design of love. Trust is about being confident that you are loved and you love your partner. The common mistakes in a relationship is building parameters, setting up rules, caging yourself in your own world. Love is boundless. Trust is not only given to him/her but also to yourself. You should be able to trust yourself that you are satisfied with what you have  and would only want more if it is to be with him/her. If you spend all your time, thinking about your partner’s faithfulness or loyalty to you then you’re missing out on a lot of good things in a relationship… Trust should be innate and not an external issue… Once you think that Trust should be earned  then you should live alone and start working for the CIA…

No relationship is perfect, no relationship is eternal, everything ends, but keeping it and making the most out it while you’re at it is the key to a happy life.

… Sometimes I think JC is a vamp … Here’s some of my takes on how I think, He is one of the undead … a high level vampire … immune to some of the mythical weapons that can subdue a blood sucker…

1. He was never conceived like any ordinary mortal… Who really was his father? a demon disguised as an angel ? to impregnate Mary? … hmmm
2. He can walk on water … could be the power of flight … floating above water …
3. He can heal people and  raise the dead… folktales tell about the healing power of vampire’s blood …
4. He can lure people with his words… vampires are know to have mystical powers of hypnosis…
5. He was able to withstand the punishment and torture on his way to be crucified.
6. On the last supper, He shared his blood with his disciples… Maybe he turned them to vampires too… to perform “miracles” and spread the “word” <– Don’t say that to Peter Griffin…
7. He rose from the dead… after dying in the cross… I think the guards missed the heart

There you go… oh well… I still have to do an in depth research on this… Please be reminded that these are just my thoughts and my words… not that factual .. not yet…

… Open your mind for a different view.. and Nothing Else Matters – Metallica